Thursday, October 13, 2011

Step 47; The quality of your life depends on the quality of your questions

From my experience interacting with people, I realised that their results in life is co-related to the questions that they asked. Let me give you an example: if you ask, Why am I so poor? You will come up with a set of answers that will enforce the reasons why you should stay poor. Don't you think it will be better if you ask, How can I be rich? You will come up with a set answer that can help you to be rich. My answer to that question is simple, go learn from the rich, pay them if you must. There are many books and seminars where you can learn how to be rich.

Poor people usually ask, what can you do for me? Rich people usually ask, what can I do for you?

If you want something the best way to ask is; What must I do for you in order for you to do that for me? If the answer is nothing, go to the next person. If you have the skills, knowledge and experience, you can add a lot of value to a lot of people and they will be able to add more value to you.

I will talk about adding value next week